Frustration – a single and simple word it seems, but does have a deeper meaning to it. What is frustration then? It is defined by the online dictionary as ” a feeling of dissatisfaction, often accompanied by anxiety or depression, resulting from unfulfilled needs or unresolved problems.”
It’s a sense of disgruntlement and pain awakened in the mind of homo sapiens only when something has went wrong with them or they aren’t able to gain the goals they had set for themselves. In each 10 folks, 7 are influenced by it and out of them 3 are severely influenced. It’s a psychological feeling that’s growing like other threatening sicknesses such as AIDS.
In today’s competitive world, each person has his targets that he needed to achieve in time and if he is not in a position to achieve his targets, he gets annoyed. This disappointment may have an effect on the mind in a negative way in which a person’s thinking power gets slowed down. Frustration may lead an individual to take wrong calls and as a consequence of which, he isn’t able to come with leading edge concepts. He isn’t able to achieve all his targets and is left with only his uncompleted plans and unachieved targets. Such a vexed person goes a long distance from fact.
So how does this sense of disappointment arise? Firstly, the sensation of disappointment is awakened in humans when they’re not able to achieve the targets they had set for themselves. When the people misinterpret their capacities and set those targets which are not close enough to their potentials. They just compare themselves with people who are more educated or are supplied with high potential or more resources and then set their target up to those levels, in which they factually could never reach.
And then when they don’t seem to be ready to meet their targets, they get annoyed. It’s the fact that everybody on this earth aren’t born with same potential and have same capabilities and in same area. If they misinterpret their functional area and start their career in line in which they’re puny or the line which isn’t meant really for them. Then this causes disappointment on the condition of being not achieving the targets. If common man doesn’t make effort to get rid of these sorts of social injustices, then this led on to disappointment in them. The participation of big number of young folks in activities like terrorism is also an end result of frustration.
There might not be one single individual on earth who has not experienced getting frustrated. In general, we all have our goals and plans in life, but as individuals, it is how we react and cope up with the situation that differ. By being positive and looking outside the box, it will help us turn frustration into a challenge to try it again.